Fucking vs. Love – The Square Off

Hello slightly loyal readers!  I know most of you have landed on our site because Google returns us as a result for “submissive rules” and hopefully you are reading the notes and other pages across the site to get an understanding around how we set the rules… then again, it is probably time to review and edit them.

Anyway, my love and I were talking the other night and discussing the results of her completing the BDSM checklist and we got on the topic of monogamy, which Google was kind enough to define as:

mo·nog·a·my
məˈnäɡəmē/
noun
    the practice or state of being married to one person at a time.
  • the practice or state of having a sexual relationship with only one partner
  • the habit of having only one mate at a time.

Which lead to us discussing how we view the act of sexual intercourse.  My wife/submissive takes a very emotional view and has to have that connection with a person to be able to take the ultimate step of giving herself to them physically.  I fully understand her stance and agree that the act of making love is that spiritual connection between two people that occurs when they connect inside and outside of the bedroom.

However, I also defined the act of fucking.  Google defines fuck(ing) as:

fuck
fək/
vulgar slang
verb
gerund or present participle: fucking (fekING)
  1. have sexual intercourse with (someone) – (of two people) have sexual intercourse.
  2. ruin or damage (something).

To which I like the second definition in the act of fucking someone.  It is an aerobic exercise that takes place between two (or more) people in which the goal is to “ruin” the other person through the physical contact of bodies slamming together, biting, grabbing, pulling, pushing, grunting, sweat dripping, full force activity.

Now, two people do not need to be in love to fuck.  They do not need a special connection, they don’t even need to know the other person’s name.  None of that is specifically important to the goal of taking out all of your emotion in a flesh on flesh wrestling match.

But in the event that you can find someone you do love, can commit to that person (if that is your thing), and you can fuck each other.  You might just discover another level to the act.

When you can combine a connection with an individual at a spiritual level with the connection of your bodies, it can be an amazing thing.

-Sir

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