Here is a good article about how what we say is important in the D/s world. The act of saying “Suck my cock” can come out differently, for example:
“Please suck my cock”
“You know you want to suck my cock”
“On your knees! You will suck my cock”
“Hey look at that butterfly, doesn’t that make you want to suck my cock?”
With so many ways to say something, it is important that we develop a style that works, combining our own personality with traits of speech that we know to work.
Check out the article on The Dominant Guide!