I went looking for some new and interesting links and found a couple of fun ones to visit:
The BDSM Dashboard from Belasarius, found at: http://belasarius.com/tag/spreadsheet/.
This Excel file allows you to “pick your kinks” and see a resulting graphs and charts around your kink. It may not be completely scientific; but it is fun.
The Sex List, found here: http://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthread.php?t=32667, contains (per the author):
- Punishments
- Things to do for couples
- BDSM + BDSM experience list
- Domination + Rules
- Alternative toys
- Dares & truths
- Outdoor & Public
- Roleplaying
- Dice Games
A PDF, Mainstreaming Kink, found here: https://wesfiles.wesleyan.edu/home/mdweiss/pubs/weiss.pdf
A set of guides and tools (mostly for getting started) can be found here: https://ranai.wordpress.com/kink-resources/en/topics/checklists/
There are dozens and dozens of other sites out there so keep an eye out for awesome resources!