Dom Tips (1.0)

– If you expect your submissive to invest, you must match or exceed their energy and focus on the relationship.

– Stop calling it “punishment”!  We are correcting actions  we do not like, not punishing people.  It is correction.

– Make punishment part of play.  That is where that word belongs.

– Limits exist for a reason.  Push them, but do not break them.  Let you submissive come to the realization that some of their limits are holding them back.

– SOME LIMITS EXIST BECAUSE THE SUBMISSIVE NEEDS THEM.  Tread lightly around these.

– Be creative.  Try new things as rewards, corrections, play/scene time, and in your every day actions.

– Give what you get.  Do not expect your submissive to give if all you do is take.  That is not how it works.

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3 thoughts on “Dom Tips (1.0)

  1. Lovely guidelines, a great place to start. Thanks!

  2. littleannab says:

    Reblogged this on Little AnnaB's Sanctuary and commented:
    A must read

  3. […] via Dom Tips (1.0) — He Loves and Honors, she Obeys […]

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